Rethinking Women’s Safety at Home – Ligha H Ayemi, BA 5th Semester, Department of English

Home is often regarded as a place of comfort, security, and belonging. Yet for some women, it can also be a site of fear, control, and violence. Behind closed doors, countless women experience abuse that remains hidden from public view. This raises an important and unsettling question: are women truly safe in their own homes? The issue of women’s safety has been discussed across eras and various contexts. Women today excel in various fields; their achievements inspire pride and reflect growing empowerment. Yet when it comes to safety, something still feels lacking. Can women truly feel safe in the spaces they inhabit? Safety is often associated with familiar surroundings and trusted relationships, but for some women, danger can exist where they least expect it- even within the walls of their own homes. When storms strike or heavy rain falls, people naturally return home for shelter. Home should offer safety, comfort, and protection. But what if it becomes a place one must flee? What if a dark street at night feels safer than one’s own house? What if the person a woman fears lives under the same roof?

Violence does not spare anyone by age; women of all ages can become victims. Not all women experience the home as a place of safety and security. Home becomes not a place of comfort but of fear: fear of assault, fear of harm, and fear of living where safety should exist. Disturbingly, such violence does not affect only adult women. Young girls, too, are often exposed to abuse within the very spaces and by the very people they are taught to trust.

As a result, childhood, which should be filled with love, security, and innocent memories, can instead be marked by fear and lasting trauma. When a woman or a child is assaulted, the damage is not only physical. Their mental well-being, sense of security, and social lives can be deeply affected, with consequences that may last for years. What victims need most is support: reassurance that the abuse was not their fault and steady help to heal. Many survivors live with lasting physical injuries and invisible wounds – anxiety, sleepless nights, and the weight of memories – that make it harder to work, study, or care for loved ones. Shame and fear of judgment often force people into silence.

News of an assault should not be treated as fleeting headlines. It must prompt action so that such crimes stop happening within our communities. Too many cases remain hidden in the dark because victims fear social stigma. In some instances, they may hesitate to report abuse because the perpetrator is a family member or someone they trust. This silence can prevent victims from receiving the help and protection they need, allowing abuse to continue unchecked. The result can be devastating – loss of trust, depression, and, in some tragic cases, loss of precious lives. Creating an environment where survivors are heard, respected, and supported is an important step towards breaking this cycle of silence and preventing future harm. When survivors are denied emotional support and justice, they experience psychological distress. Silence is never the solution, as it empowers the perpetrator; it emboldens them to continue. While legal and social progress has advanced women’s rights, safety has lagged. From a young child to an old woman, females remain vulnerable to the threat of harm; violence respects neither innocence nor age. Speaking out about abuse can help bring attention to harmful behaviour and may prevent others from experiencing similar situations. Seeking support and taking appropriate action can be difficult, but it can also contribute to personal recovery and encourage greater awareness and accountability within society.

If home no longer offers peace, where should women find it? The relationship to the perpetrator does not lessen the crime; for the victim, the perpetrator is simply a criminal. The survivor’s pain cannot be fully known by others, but listening, supporting, and acting matter. A safer environment for women requires not only legal protection but also social awareness and accessible support. Addressing violence within the home requires collective responsibility, stronger support systems, and a commitment to prevention. Until these efforts are strengthened, many women may continue to live in fear, even in their own homes.

Degree of Thought is a weekly community column initiated by Tetso College in partnership with The Morung Express. Degree of Thought will delve into the social, cultural, political, and educational issues around us. The views expressed here do not reflect the opinion of the institution. Tetso College is a NAAC Accredited UGC recognised Commerce and Arts College. The editorial team includes Ms Tenipumei Phom, Asst. Professor Dept. of English, Ms Limajungla Walling, Asst. Professor Dept. of Linguistics, and Mr Munkiri Taro, Multimedia Executive.
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